What is the meaning of LOVE （谈恋爱）and How can Us preserve the LOVE

What is the meaning of love ( 谈恋爱 ),

Actually the meaning of love ( 谈恋爱 )
is to let each other to have an intimate talk.....

we should enjoy the process.....when we talk to our belove....

but not the speed of physical contact......

because if the speed of physical contact is too fast....

Usually this will let the guy or girl lost their direction....

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